So I had this actual experience over the weekend. I have spoken extensively about the need to not be too soft on foster children. Yes they have had it rough, yes you need to modify your discipline plan for some of them, and yes they are currently sad and scared.
That doesn't mean they get to misbehave.
That also doesn't mean that I need you to tell me to go easier on my kid.
That also doesn't mean that my kid needs you to save her.
She is fine.
She is receiving a consequence.
She will get along just fine without you.
She is manipulating you for attention. BACK OFF.
I would go on, but about a year ago I read this article that sums it up way better than I ever could.
http://www.confessionsofaparent.com/dont-save-my-child/
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