Our caseworker came over and did our second home visit on Tuesday. Basically she just interviewed hubby and made sure all of her information was correct. She submitted that paperwork on Wednesday, and now we wait!
Praying for our first placement!
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Sunday, June 29, 2014
Tuesday, June 17, 2014
Home Visit
Just got done with our first home visit. It was very casual and we passed everything. I so nervous that a fire alarm was going to malfunction or a bug was going to make an appearance, but it all went smoothly. I was actually surprised at the number of things that our caseworker took my word for. For all she knew my cleaners were really under the sink instead of the locked closet that I pointed to.
After the health inspection she interviewed me, and the questions were almost verbatim what was on the questionarre. Maybe she wanted to watch/hear me answer them to make sure I was telling the truth? The only things that she actually checked were that our hot water heater worked, that there was a thermometer in the fridge, that we have a first aid kit, and that one of the 6 fire alarms work, and that our fire extinguisher was tagged. After checking these few things she took pictures of each room and closet, and the yard.
I honestly was nervous about the dogs. We have a pit bull and she looks like one (even though our vet has her down as a boxer mix). I have been worried from the beginning that someone would judge our dog based on her breed instead of paying attention to her disposition. However, our case worker is a dog lover and was best friends with both our dogs within a few minutes
I can't think of anything else to really tell you right now... I am just so full of relief. If you want to know more specifics just message me and ask.
After the health inspection she interviewed me, and the questions were almost verbatim what was on the questionarre. Maybe she wanted to watch/hear me answer them to make sure I was telling the truth? The only things that she actually checked were that our hot water heater worked, that there was a thermometer in the fridge, that we have a first aid kit, and that one of the 6 fire alarms work, and that our fire extinguisher was tagged. After checking these few things she took pictures of each room and closet, and the yard.
I honestly was nervous about the dogs. We have a pit bull and she looks like one (even though our vet has her down as a boxer mix). I have been worried from the beginning that someone would judge our dog based on her breed instead of paying attention to her disposition. However, our case worker is a dog lover and was best friends with both our dogs within a few minutes
I can't think of anything else to really tell you right now... I am just so full of relief. If you want to know more specifics just message me and ask.
There is so much to tell. We came back a ocuple of days ago from the ROyal Family Kids camp (full blog coming soon). Suffice to say there is a gil in the county next to ours who is walking around with my beating heart in her hands, and there are several more walking around with pieces of my soul.
Also in about an hour I have my health inspection and first home visit.
I will tell you how that goes!
Also in about an hour I have my health inspection and first home visit.
I will tell you how that goes!
Friday, June 6, 2014
The Foster Path
I continue to be surprised at all of the ways God is gently moving us forward on the Foster Path. Sometimes (and this is a weird analogy but I have dogs and this makes sense to me) I have felt like a dog on a leash. In the beginning I was on the Foster Path, but I had to be dragged, yanked, and prodded forward, but now walking calmly beside God I get to pause for a moment and be witness to why I am here in the first place.
One of the amazing things I am seeing is the amount of people who are opening up to us about their foster care experience. It is shocking how many people who we know casually or through other people have been through the foster care system. One example is a wonderful lady at work. We were standing in a group of people, chatting about foster care, and all of a sudden she just started weeping. Her husband, it turns out, had been in the system forty years ago. Soon we were all crying as she told us part of his story. While it is sad and a burden to carry all of these stories of pain and loss, I know that I need them and that they will make me a better foster mother... and eventually a better mom.
God had also provided other ways for Hubby and I to be involved with foster kids.
(quick info before I go on..... in most states, once a foster kid is 18 the state is done with them. FLorida is doing it a little differently and is helping the kid transition out by taking care of them and helping them live on their own until they are 21)
Hubby works on the athletic program at out church, and recently has started a program where each sports team sponsors a foster kid 18-21. That means that the team will save a spot on their team for that particular kid and make sure that they have the gloves, cleats, and gear needed to play. HUbby's team just started this, and Hubby is actually meeting the 19-year-old that we are sponsoring today!
It is stuff like this and countless other precious moments and people who encourage me everyday. What we are doing is terrifying, and if you are out there think about going down the Foster Path..... you will be terrified. But you will also be lifted up, and you will have moments of clarity and realize that you whole life has been preparing you for this.
One of the amazing things I am seeing is the amount of people who are opening up to us about their foster care experience. It is shocking how many people who we know casually or through other people have been through the foster care system. One example is a wonderful lady at work. We were standing in a group of people, chatting about foster care, and all of a sudden she just started weeping. Her husband, it turns out, had been in the system forty years ago. Soon we were all crying as she told us part of his story. While it is sad and a burden to carry all of these stories of pain and loss, I know that I need them and that they will make me a better foster mother... and eventually a better mom.
God had also provided other ways for Hubby and I to be involved with foster kids.
(quick info before I go on..... in most states, once a foster kid is 18 the state is done with them. FLorida is doing it a little differently and is helping the kid transition out by taking care of them and helping them live on their own until they are 21)
Hubby works on the athletic program at out church, and recently has started a program where each sports team sponsors a foster kid 18-21. That means that the team will save a spot on their team for that particular kid and make sure that they have the gloves, cleats, and gear needed to play. HUbby's team just started this, and Hubby is actually meeting the 19-year-old that we are sponsoring today!
It is stuff like this and countless other precious moments and people who encourage me everyday. What we are doing is terrifying, and if you are out there think about going down the Foster Path..... you will be terrified. But you will also be lifted up, and you will have moments of clarity and realize that you whole life has been preparing you for this.
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